make or break~~aiyak

tettt~macam bese emo disturbance pagi2 bute so paham2 =)

How can two people who dun share da same values in life make their relationship work? Seriously, in the long term how can they raise their kid together? ala segan asyik cakap jiwang2 jew tapi biarla..my blog my writing my thoughts my feelin my way my aisey okay2 wuteva lah hana..I know selalu bout love-related topics but helo saya bukan budak lagi walaupun makan masih comot, burp masih lupa kata excuse me alhamdulillah, tido ganaz ala mafia,cadar katil masih pinky gagal okay we get it now.

However, my personal love life is sumething I'll not talk about 'ere (kalau dah serious yang stok dapat restu dua-dua pihak keluarga is another story), like who came and pinang me yesterday, who is my mom and dad's personal pick or my chosen one etc. Anything that involve feelings should be kept private kan? Unless U tak kisah saya tukar hp number every now and then. Standard procedure untuk pompuan emo (read:me). Hakhak.

Okay katne saya td? Owh. Should two people who dont share the same values in life even be together? For me, I'm not da girl who casually ada flings n such, if I were to be in a relationship (or am I already eceh eceh??cannot tell cannot tell =(, it'd be a serious one yang would go on for years, not months apatah lagi weeks oso not da one yg would go for sexy-sexa miaw miaw.or else matila saya nak jaga.huuuuhh (-.-)

Personally, I strongly feel dat love relationship should always menuju ke arah perkahwinan. Menuju ya, tak semestinya kawen, cuz kalo tak serasi waktu tunang den how? Maybe sebab saya gatal nak kahwin cepat?wooo..mak,ckyh nak kawen!ngee I cakap macam ni sume. Dats juz me, I feel dat U dun get into relationship sebab U lonely, sebab membe2 U ada partners, sebab it's the 'in' thing, sebab U takut takde orang laen nak dekat U kalo U lepaskan yang datang, sebab U feel dat it's bout time, sebab U nak try ramai-ramai pasangan b4 kawen.


If U nak meet all da men in the world b4 kawen, by all means, do it. Tapi jangan le get into a serious relationship sampai tiga-empat lelaki dalam satu masa. aishhhh..sangat westernized dah tuh. Orang panggil open relationship ea? (~.^) You get into relationship sebab U terjatuh cinta dan U harapkan untuk get married ngan orang tu. hohohoho barulah old-school n sangat2 sweet!

It's just my personal view, please no heart feelings or any judgement yang tidak konkrit. Saya tulis panjang lebar sebab ngantok ngah wat assignment ekeke~ n oso tertanya2, should two person who dont share the same values in life even be together? VALUE TAW, VALUE, BUKAN TASTE OR PREFERENCES. Nanti kita rasa buat macam ni salah, tapi sebab upbringing lain, dia pulak rasa tak salah.aiyo amma appa~ Dia pandang dosa macam ni, kita pandang dosa macam tu.chill~ Nanti nak besarkan anak susah sebab mak cakap dun, bapak cakap ala biarlah anak muda nak mencoba etc. ngeh3.sory2, sebab saya belum kawen so wondering la gak. Hakhak.

... back off guys ...

Btw,saya nak hadiahkan lagu ini untuk sume yang ngah mempertahankan perhubungan diorang sebab lagu ini super duper awesome. It makes me wonder, when should we stop trying :